Tiyce & Lawyers Principal Michael Tiyce was interviewed for this article in Better Homes & Gardens recently. Here are Michael’s three top tips to speed up the divorce process and reduce costs:
Divorce has a reputation for being an emotionally and mentally exhausting process that can drag on for years. It can leave both parties unable to move on with their lives and psychologically and financially drained.
According to the experts this doesn’t have to be the case and there are ways to reach a mutually beneficial resolution, while keeping the process as brief and smooth as possible. We asked Michael Tiyce from Tiyce & Lawyers for his top tips for getting through a divorce without it becoming bitter and twisted or emptying your bank account.
1. Get emotional support
Even the simplest divorce can take a toll on both parties, their children and family members, but a divorce lawyer is not a counsellor. Seeing a trained counsellor and working through strong emotional issues first will prevent them from clouding your thinking and help you get the best possible outcome. It will also help reduce any further distress or trauma.
2. Gather your documentation
Paperwork is one of life’s annoying but necessary evils, and it’s no different when it comes to getting a divorce. Every divorce is different, but you’ll be required to provide your family lawyer with documentation and information to help them understand and assess your situation and options. The more organised and prepared you can be, the less time will be wasted.
You’ll need to include proof of identification, marriage certificate and divorce application, any bank and financial statements, list of assets and legal documents such as a prenuptial agreement or restraining order may be essential. Gather a list of significant dates and any previous arrangements already made with your ex and think about your expectations for the future – what outcome would you like to achieve?
3. Avoid going to court
Working with a mediator and family lawyer to reach a mutually beneficial outcome is far better than leaving it up to the courts. Placing one of your biggest and most important life decisions in the hands of a judge can be a risky gamble.
You’ll feel more empowered by taking control of the situation and actively shaping your future by settling out of court. You’ll also avoid any regrets, disappointments or further litigation if things don’t go your way. In most divorce cases, the dividing of assets and working out the custody of children are done well before the final papers are signed. The final formality of signing the divorce papers simply allows you to legally remarry, if you choose.
View the full article on Better Homes & Gardens: https://www.bhg.com.au/how-to-avoid-divorce-fees