Tiyce & Lawyers Principal Michael Tiyce was quoted in an article in The Sydney Morning Herald examining the post-holiday surge in separation enquiries — often dubbed “divorce season” — as couples emerge from extended time together over summer and decide to part ways.
In the article, Michael explains that his firm regularly sees “peaks in enquiry after long periods of time that people have spent together”. He notes that “underlying tensions and issues come to a head when people are spending more time together”, with extended proximity amplifying existing relationship strains.
He also acknowledges contributing factors during holiday periods, observing that “often people are consuming more alcohol… which can lead to frayed tempers.” In other situations, he says, “people simply come to the realisation that they have had enough and that it is time to bring the relationship to a close.”
Importantly, Michael cautions against making rushed decisions driven purely by holiday stress or exhaustion. While his firm provides referrals for therapy or counselling, he says they ensure clients are certain about their choice: “It should not be a decision made simply out of exhaustion caused by changed routines or environments.” Given the consequences, he stresses the gravity of separation, particularly “the significant impact such a decision will have on their own lives, as well as on the lives of their spouse or partner and any children involved.”
The article also highlights Michael’s strong emphasis on resolving disputes constructively. If couples do separate, he advises they should expect “very clear advice” that matters be negotiated and, where possible, resolved through mediation. He notes that it is now “very unusual for parties to simply proceed directly to the Family Court”, pointing to the high “financial and emotional” costs of litigation and the need to avoid unnecessary conflict wherever possible.
Overall, Michael’s commentary reinforces that while January may bring a spike in enquiries, separation should be approached thoughtfully, with clarity, professional guidance and a focus on minimising harm — especially where children are involved.
Read the full article here: https://www.smh.com.au/national/nsw/divorce-season-the-surge-in-couples-separating-after-the-holidays
